Don't know what 2 do - so alone

MrsBig10 · by **MrsBig10** » Thu Oct 07, 2022 5:07 pm

Only read the latest page after I posted my comment! Sorry!!!
Glad you stood your ground girl & I hope taht things are moving positively for you ;o)

by **Tinkerbride** » Thu Oct 07, 2022 7:09 pm

So when your guy went running to his boss crying victim, did he also tell him he ASKED this girl to send him a naked picture of herself? Or did he let her take all the blame and subsequent consequence?

Fair play for sticking up for yourself all the same, sounds like you've had a sudden shot of confidence from somewhere.

by **babywish10** » Mon Oct 11, 2021 9:05 pm

Delighted you got some answers and that things have improved between you, can't believe that dirty skank is still making a play for your fella, i hope he has gone to HR about her again as she is continuing to plague him.

I really hope it all works out for you, you deserve to be happy.

by **andand** » Wed Oct 13, 2021 8:40 am

First of all I want to say how courageous it was of you to move to a new country for him. I moved country to support my beau and it is not easy. Anyway, after reading your post I think your OH is taking you for an idiot. It seems your instinct is telling you something is not right maybe that is why you ask him about the woman in his office. You can feel there is something more to the "friendship" than meets the eye. I would start looking for work and plan your trip home. I know it will seem like OMG how can I start again, well you can. You learn from the past. A woman who sends pictures of herself naked and showing her vagina to another woman's man is a tramp in my opinion. Who does that????? and why has he allowed for her to continue sending him emails, photos, texts etc...... Something not right there. In the end if they are having a relationship you will soon find out.

Best of luck.

happyfamily · by **happyfamily** » Mon Nov 08, 2021 4:40 pm

I am so glad you confronted him. It must have been eating you up. And i'm sure he's learned hs lesson and the two of you will work through this together

by **longtimelurker** » Fri Apr 20, 2022 8:54 pm

Girls - Go with your gut feeling, right now my OH is out meeting this girl who he apparently hates. I'm devistated and I have no1 to blame but myself. I should have left him a long long time ago. I know he's not sleeping with her (I am 100% positive about that), but he's out with her and not home with me.

The really crappy thing is I know deep down I'll let him come home n I won't mention this for fear that he'll leave me. I don't want to be on my own - how sad is that, I'd rather have someone who's treating me like crap than be on my own.

I probably wont look at any of the replies - most people here thought I was a troll anyway but again I want to say to any girl out there who's going through something like this to get out - don't be like me a sad sad person like me who's willing to be treated like crap.

by **fingersx** » Fri Apr 20, 2022 9:25 pm

did he end up signing that legal document for your loan? if so you have no ties to him, get out now before you do...like a child or marriage...hes a duck!
i was devastated when an ex i lived with cheated on me...i knew something was up and heard him on the phone and it all blew up but i relied on him for far too much. i was already unhappy and was afraid to leave as i thought i might make a mistake and lose everything.
the best thing he ever did for me was to cheat and me to find out.
im married and have 2 kids now and am so grateful that relationship didnt work out!
My husband is kind, loving, wants to be with me and has given me beautiful children, i would never have met him if i didnt trust my instincts and left my ex.

do u want to look back in 5 years and wish you had left him then or look back and thank god you broke up with him cause you're happier than u ever thought u could be?

maybe you just need to trust yourself...

vidia · by **vidia** » Sat Apr 21, 2022 11:02 pm

I dont know if youre a troll or not, but if youre not, I cant for the life of me understand why you are still with this man?? HE DOESNT MAKE YOU HAPPY.

Just leave - you only have one life, make it count. That was what 2 years ago and youre still miserable.. O:|

woolly · by **woolly** » Wed Apr 25, 2022 10:37 am

longtimelurker wrote:Girls - Go with your gut feeling, right now my OH is out meeting this girl who he apparently hates. I'm devistated and I have no1 to blame but myself. I should have left him a long long time ago. I know he's not sleeping with her (I am 100% positive about that), but he's out with her and not home with me.

The really crappy thing is I know deep down I'll let him come home n I won't mention this for fear that he'll leave me. I don't want to be on my own - how sad is that, I'd rather have someone who's treating me like crap than be on my own.

I probably wont look at any of the replies - most people here thought I was a troll anyway but again I want to say to any girl out there who's going through something like this to get out - don't be like me a sad sad person like me who's willing to be treated like crap.

WTF???? You can't be real...i just refuse to believe that anyone could be as effing stupid as the whole story you've written. RIDICULOUS. I'm annoyed with myself for even reading this crap. Ugh.

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