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Re: Cold Feet?

Postby BlossomHill » Sun Oct 09, 2022 9:09 pm

Desperatelyconfused

how are you ? Have you sat down with OH and talked about how you are feeeling ? he might be feeling the same.......
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Re: Cold Feet?

Postby lolabelle » Mon Oct 10, 2021 6:57 am

BlossomHill wrote:Desperatelyconfused

how are you ? Have you sat down with OH and talked about how you are feeeling ? he might be feeling the same.......


+1 Hope you are doing ok :wv
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Re: Cold Feet?

Postby desperatelyconfused » Mon Oct 10, 2021 11:12 am

I talked to him just over a week ago. He said that he's 100% sure of us and he has absolutely no doubts about the wedding. He asked if I was unsure about the wedding or about us - and I said I didn't know. He asked if I wanted a break and I said I wasn't sure so he said that we'd give it a week or two and then talk again. A lot of the time when we are in our daily life/routine etc I can't picture my life any other way but (sorry if its tmi) when its just us being intimate I can't feel anything at all. I've gone through the stage of trying to bring the spark back but now I've all but given up. I can't even bring myself to look in his eyes during s*x. I don't even enjoy kissing him. I was sure that he would tell him that he felt the same and that when I basically offered him a way out he would take it. The confusing thing is that, apart from the sexual chemistry side of things, I know for sure that I really do love him and I can't imagine not being with him.
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Re: Cold Feet?

Postby BlossomHill » Sat Oct 15, 2021 8:32 pm

Ok completely random question but are you still on the pill ??

I found the pill to be such a passion & libido killer.
Can't believe the difference since I came off it.
Like a light switch switched back on.
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Re: Cold Feet?

Postby amberlight » Fri Nov 04, 2021 8:11 pm

Im sorry to hear your feeling like this...sometimes we need to come face on with someting like a wedding in your case before knowing the truth....trust your gut instinct, we have instinct for a reason, its very real and gives us the anwers to many questions. No one can even come close to telling you if its cold feet or someting more, you are the only one who can make this decision. just try and be honest with yourself.....remember this.....you can always change your mind......
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Re: Cold Feet?

Postby Something Different » Sun Nov 27, 2021 1:41 am

Have sent a PM - hope thats okay - topic a bit too close to home (at times) for a public forum. Hope that you have found your way with this..
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Re: Cold Feet?

Postby BlossomHill » Sun Dec 04, 2021 8:40 pm

How are you doing DeperatelyConfused.
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Re: Cold Feet?

Postby purplenails » Mon Apr 16, 2022 6:46 pm

Hi Desperatelyconfused,

i was just wondering whatever happened with you and your OH and how you are doing??... i could have written your posts myself :o(
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