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Very Sore??

Postby paws2paws » Thu May 10, 2022 12:37 pm

Hi Folks,
Hope someone can help i am married to a wonderful patient caring man he's well endowed( Not always a great thing)
BUT i just can't have sex with him i am just so Sore and it's very unconfortable for me the can anyone advise on what can we do for me to enjoy it like a normal person?? Very fustrating for us both he;s great very understanding but i'd be afraid of him may get fed up with this i am very worried!!, I don't want to be going to a doctor i'd die now. It looks like we are in a rut as this is affecting us and we really really love each other Great bloke...
If you can send me all the advise please Thanks in advance.. O-O
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Postby keepitsimple » Thu May 10, 2022 3:10 pm

is this a new thing or has sex always been sore for you?

I believe it shouldn't really matter what size he is (although I am curious to know just how well endowed we are talking here >:o) ) . but if this is a new problem you really should go see your doctor as i'm sure this can be sorted. If it has always been like this then I'm not sure what else to say except try relax, try different positions that might be more comfortable for you and maybe abit of sex lube might help??!?!
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Postby Ellefun » Thu May 10, 2022 3:16 pm

It could be psychological or purely physical. Maybe you are tense without even really being aware of it and that makes s*x less comfortable and even sore. It could also be vagisimus. Either way you should go to your GP to discuss it. Are you o.k inserting tampons and having smears? Never be embarrassed to talk to your doctor about anything. It's for your own good. You'll be relieved to talk it out and discover a remedy... :action32
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Postby paws2paws » Thu May 10, 2022 3:22 pm

Girls thanks very much for the replys

No was never like this before as far as i can remember?? I have no problem having a smear tamponns don't use, Bloody hate being a woman a times really do!!! Yeah maybe try to relax you'd imagine that would come naturally jesus married couple?? I will look in to getting a Good lub too from Boots. Yes it's very important to talk yes indeed. Funny if your mad to push out 7lb on wards what the hell is going on , Very annoying god ya'd see people hopping on one another and i'd be thinking god wish i could do this????????? O:| O:| >:o( Guys thanks a million again great people on this forum!! :thnk
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Postby errigal08 » Fri May 11, 2022 11:23 pm

paws2paws wrote:Girls thanks very much for the replys

No was never like this before as far as i can remember?? I have no problem having a smear tamponns don't use, Bloody hate being a woman a times really do!!! Yeah maybe try to relax you'd imagine that would come naturally jesus married couple?? I will look in to getting a Good lub too from Boots. Yes it's very important to talk yes indeed. Funny if your mad to push out 7lb on wards what the hell is going on , Very annoying god ya'd see people hopping on one another and i'd be thinking god wish i could do this????????? O:| O:| >:o( Guys thanks a million again great people on this forum!! :thnk


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Postby featherrocket » Thu Jun 07, 2022 10:41 am

I thought I'd throw in my experience as well. I've been with H2B for 5 years and he's not lacking in the size department, but the last yr or so I have been very sore after even if he spends loads of time with foreplay. I finally got fed up and went to a woman's clinic and found out that I'm suffering from Pelvic muscle spasms. Everything is in a state of hypertension and sensitivity, the worst muscle is the Obturator Internus which unfortunately cant be got at very easy. I've been going to a phyiso therapist that specialises in this and the progress is agonizingly slow. This is greatly affecting our relationship my sex drive is in the crapper and I cant do anything I love doing. I'm feeling lost and hopeless at the moment and my H2B is loosing his patience which I can totally understand, but do nothing about. If this is a persistent problem I wouldnt bother going to the GP, mine did a pelvic exam and found nothing, it wasnt till months later that I'm finally trying to sort it out. I hope this isnt something you have and you've already got it sorted.
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