Fiance didn't come home last night!

g4aJune11 · by **g4aJune11** » Wed Apr 04, 2022 6:52 pm

Re hickey part, was at a party 2 weeks ao and 1 of the girls accosted another and left a stunning hickey on her forehead...

Op glad things are ok..

Luka · by **Luka** » Wed Apr 04, 2022 11:12 pm

I'm glad the OP & her partner have resolved the issue now.

I suppose the only thing (thinking about it) that would worry me, apart from thinking he's lying in a ditch, is that if something happened, like an emergency situation & what do you say? I don't know where my OH is....

An ex of mine years ago was out one night, his dad got a heart-attack & died- he had several missed calls on his phone, his sister was trying to ring him, didn't hear his phone with the noise of the pub. :o(

BY the time he saw the calls & got to the hospital it was too late. I know that situation was different, but if something happens & your OH is uncontactable, or worse, you don't even know where he is, personally thats what I'd find very hard to deal with.

lolabelle · by **lolabelle** » Thu Apr 05, 2022 5:47 am

g4aJune11 wrote:Re hickey part, was at a party 2 weeks ao and 1 of the girls accosted another and left a stunning hickey on her forehead...

Op glad things are ok..

Right....Im assuming you were chaperoning these teenagers when this happened?

libramoon · by **libramoon** » Thu Apr 05, 2022 12:57 pm

This happened to my sister. Her husband was out all night with work colleagues. She was at home with their 2 kids. He finally returned the next day with some BS story. She didn't believe him and after quizzing and quizzing him about it over a number of days he finally admitted he was with his EX-GIRLFRIEND that he'd met in the pub!! My sister left him but has since forgiven him and they are back together now but that's another story...

rubymoon · by **rubymoon** » Thu Apr 05, 2022 8:11 pm

Dh did this a few times before we got married and we had a son at that stage. It used to drive me absolutely demented! I would be so upset with no phonecall, no respect for me or our ds to just not call and let me know he was alive! But after we got married it more or less stopped so I definitely wouldn't advise to jump to conclusions and assume the worst. Some peoples minds work overtime and they imagine all sorts happening when it can be pretty innocent yet stupid immature behaviour.

errigal08 · by **errigal08** » Sat Apr 07, 2022 11:03 pm

i dont think he was doing anything like cheating..i think he was doing what he might have done in his 20's and needed to let off steam.
i think he went out with the lads,
had a few pints then a few lines,
and was still flying hi when the sun came up,
it was such a beautiful sight to see that they had another few lines to celebrate gods beautiful world,by that time it was 7-7.30am and the couple of lines he just had would keep him going a while,so they sat up talking about the wonders of the world,fell asleep woke up on a come down and said there is no way i can go home in this state,and tried to sort himself out?
it does not excuse him not calling,if it was my OH he would need to be in the hospital not to ring me..but when the drinks "ahem" in the sense is out!
thats just my opinion,but i could be wrong!
men are stupid feckers,and only you know your man!

mammy2011 · by **mammy2011** » Sun Apr 08, 2022 10:41 am

errigal08 wrote:men are stupid feckers,and only you know your man!

No they are not. This man is, your man might be. But not all men.

errigal08 · by **errigal08** » Sun Apr 08, 2022 10:46 am

mammy2011 wrote:
errigal08 wrote:men are stupid feckers,and only you know your man!

No they are not. This man is, your man might be. But not all men.

thats your opinion mammy2011,as i said my last post was mine!
there's no need to get narky! :wv

mammy2011 · by **mammy2011** » Sun Apr 08, 2022 11:02 am

It is a fact that all men aren't like that, not an opinion. I'm not being narky at all.

cupcakebabe · by **cupcakebabe** » Tue Apr 10, 2022 9:40 am

mammy2011 wrote:
errigal08 wrote:men are stupid feckers,and only you know your man!

No they are not. This man is, your man might be. But not all men.

Never in a million years would my dh do something like this!

errigal08 · by **errigal08** » Tue Apr 10, 2022 11:52 am

cupcakebabe wrote:
mammy2011 wrote:
errigal08 wrote:men are stupid feckers,and only you know your man!

No they are not. This man is, your man might be. But not all men.

Never in a million years would my dh do something like this!

and neither would mine,i was just painting a picture as to what i thought the posters husband had done :wv

McLisa · by **McLisa** » Tue Apr 10, 2022 5:23 pm

errigal08 wrote:men are stupid feckers,and only you know your man!

i think errigal was just making a generalisation to make light of the situation and make OP feel a bit better, i dont think she was intentionally slagging off all men. How many times have we all said to a girl with man bother 'sure they are all a bunch of tossers'...you only have to walk into ladies loo in a bar at 1am on a sat night :o0

errigal08 · by **errigal08** » Tue Apr 10, 2022 5:34 pm

McLisa wrote:
errigal08 wrote:men are stupid feckers,and only you know your man!

i think errigal was just making a generalisation to make light of the situation and make OP feel a bit better, i dont think she was intentionally slagging off all men. How many times have we all said to a girl with man bother 'sure they are all a bunch of tossers'...you only have to walk into ladies loo in a bar at 1am on a sat night

thank you mclisa,at least someone knows what i ment :wv

ginger power · by **ginger power** » Tue Apr 10, 2022 7:26 pm

McLisa wrote:
errigal08 wrote:men are stupid feckers,and only you know your man!

i think errigal was just making a generalisation to make light of the situation and make OP feel a bit better, i dont think she was intentionally slagging off all men. How many times have we all said to a girl with man bother 'sure they are all a bunch of tossers'...you only have to walk into ladies loo in a bar at 1am on a sat night

+1 to this, its just a saying, how many times have people said it, doesnt mean it for all men,

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