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		MadameKinky Mini Wolly
 
  Joined: 18 Jan 2022 Posts: 153 Location: Not sure, do you know where I am?
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 4:47 pm    Post subject: how long were you together before you got married? | 
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  	      Following on from the how old were you when you got married, i had noticed that a lot of couples had been together a long time before getting married.
 
And I was wondering why?
 
In my case we got engaged after a year and were together 3 years when we married.
 
Regards,
 
MK  
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		charli Royal Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 4:49 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      just married last month - together 5 years in total _________________   
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		newkid30 Mini Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 4:50 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      were 6 years together when we got married, just had a year long engagement!  
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		Fergi New Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 4:55 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      Together 3.5 years when we got engaged and will be together 5 years when we get married. _________________ 
 
 
 
 
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		soon to b mrs N New Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 4:55 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      we're together 9 years and getting married in March.   _________________ 
 
 
 
 
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		GettingWed New Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 4:56 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      We are due to be married in July next year and by then we will be together 10 years, almost to the day!!   
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		rock-n-roll-bride Royal Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 4:59 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      we were together 2 years we we got engaged, and had a 2 year engagement so will be just over 4 years together when we say 'i do'
 
xx kim xx _________________  
  
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		torribride Mini Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 4:59 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      We'll have been together 9 years when we get married!  
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		May 08 Bride New Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 5:02 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      We were 7 years together when we got engaged and will be 9 and a half when we get married !  
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		pluppy Royal Wolly
 
  Joined: 28 Nov 2021 Posts: 2227 Location: Moyglare Manor
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 5:10 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      we'll be together nearly 4 years when we get married
 
bought the house after 1 one year, got engaged after about 2.5 years  
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		Sunbeam Royal Wolly
 
  Joined: 21 Jun 2022 Posts: 1981 Location: www.bellaccessories.co.uk
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 6:43 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      We were together just over 3 years when we got engaged, and it'll be just over 5 years when we get married.  As regards the other part of the question about why people wait so long, I think we just did things when they felt right.  There's no right or wrong, it just depends what suits the couple.  We knew after being together for 2 months we were going to get married, but now the time feels right, for us.  
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		Trooper Royal Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 6:55 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      We were engaged just over 2 1/2 years in, and we'll be married 1 month after our 4 year anniversary. _________________ 
 
 
 
I'm on a 30 day diet.
 
So far I've lost 15 days.  
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		TWIN THING Mini Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 7:21 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      we were together one yr when bought our house, 1.5 yr when engaged and will be together almost three yrs when married................  _________________ 
 
 
 
 
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		Ginger Nut Royal Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 7:30 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      2 1/2 years when we got married - just shy of 2 years when we got engaged.  When you're an oul' wan like me you don't hang around too long. _________________ 
 
 
 
 
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		peggy New Wolly
 
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				| Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2021 8:26 pm    Post subject:  | 
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  	      Been together for 8 years and will be getting married next August, just got engaged in August, But I was only 16 when I started going out with him so thats my excuse. It just felt like the right time to get married now (Plus I don't want to have a 10 year anniversary, I'm too young  )  
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